segunda-feira, 2 de março de 2015

Russian Scam Brides: The Early Signs of Scam and How to Protect Yourself

Russian Scam Brides: The Early Signs of Scam and How to Protect Yourself




Are Russian brides true or scam? Russian brides are TRUE! Unfortunately, there is always someone ready to empty the pockets of men who are overly eager for romantic adventures. Keep your eyes and ears open, so to say. Here are some stats about Russian scam brides: 0.1% of all applicants submitting their information to the Russian dating services are scammers. Who are these Russian scam brides? They are a small group of people (they may not be even women) earning money this way on the Internet. They view relationships as more of a business enterprise. They send emails to all available singles through dating services. Just like email spamming, they are searching for their victims and following the rules of the game they play.

 How can Russian scam brides be recognized? Here are the top 4 early signs of scam.
  • The letters a man receives are not specific. They tend to be generalized, not answering the exact needs of the given man. Direct questions about personal life are usually avoided, just some ready pieces of information.
  • Scammers play to man's instincts, to whatever he wants to hear and see: beautiful model - quality appearance (usually false), sexy photos, "special love" they mention after a few letters... If a given man considers this speed strange, it is. Until you met in person, any claims of love should be suspect.
  • The majority of scams involve money. The so called Russianwoman usually asks for financial support: terrible financial situation, telephone fees, Internet expenses, etc. Scammers are always mercenary, they usually look for the man's sympathy, for "what you can buy for me" (it is their job!).
  • Close attention should be paid to the huge age difference. In this case the chances of being scammed only increase. For the sake of justice it should be said that some real good girls are attracted by the older men (security, stability). However, it is not surprising that Russian scam brides are likely to be involved with much older men. 
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  •  How to protect yourself from being scammed? Here are the top 4 effective, simple and easy techniques that can help you avoid being scammed.
  • Never send money to strangers. The majority of scams involve money for travel to the man's country. Take common sense precautions: send her the ticket rather than money if you want her to come visit you. Keep your purse in your pocket, it's difficult to get scammed as far as you do it.
  • Check out the girl's incredibly beautiful appearance, the photo may be false. Ask her for more photos that are not made in the studio.
  • Ask for the girl's personal information (postal address, telephone, etc.) and see her reaction. Does she ask for gifts? It's wonderful! Find an agency that delivers flowers and gifts with photo confirmation. Scammers hate this, they love anonymity. This way will be verified not only her appearance but also her postal address and telephone number.
  • A travel to Russia should be born in mind to meet your pretty Russian girl and her family. If the intentions are serious, of course. Thus the majority of burning questions will be answered and the initial information verified. And may be even more... Remember, 99,9% of pretty Russian girls are actual, REAL. They want to find love and build a family in spite of unfavorable demographic situation in Russia. The rewards of finding a suitable Russianwoman outweigh the risks. Use these simple precautions and you will be safe from Russian scam brides.
  • Kissing Tips – for Guys

    There comes a moment in our life when all of us
    have to deal with the first date, first kiss,
    first girlfriend. This is something unavoidable
    and someday will happen. But for guys, and not
    only, this can be very stressful and annoying
    because they don't know how to handle the
    situation. If you have your first date with a
    girl that you really like, and you make a bad
    impression for the beginning, your date will
    definitely be screwed up.

    So you have to make a good impression from the
    beginning if you want to have a second date with
    her. But, what happens if you don't know how to
    kiss her and when is the right time to do it?
    There's no problem. Using some kissing tips you
    will see that you will get her in your arms
    faster than you think, even if now you are a bad
    kisser.

    Make this moment special; take her to the
    paradise with your kiss. Learn how to do this, if
    you want to have success. Here are some kissing
    tips that might help you.

    The first kiss should always be done while the
    two are alone; privacy is very important, because
    it will help you to avoid embarrassing situation.
    The first kiss has a big intensity if you two are
    alone and nobody is staring at you or disturbs
    you. Be sure that you are ready to kiss the girl
    before you make the move, it is not only a mental
    thing, but also a physical thing as well; if you
    are nervous try thinking at other things to calm
    down. Relax and be confident, how to have success
    with your kiss if you are tensed.

    Choose the best moment to kiss her and for that
    pay attention to her eyes. A woman's eyes will
    always betray her emotions. When your eyes meet
    and neither of you seem to be able to look away,
    is the perfect moment to kiss her. Beware of
    moving too quickly, start with small, regular
    kiss and just after a while you can go further.
    Which is very important, don't ask the permission
    to kiss her. You may cup her cheek with your
    hands gently, use either one hand or two hands
    depending on how confident you are; now her mind
    know what you plan to do.

    For success in your kissing, make sure from the
    beginning that you have a good breath; it is very
    important to wash your teeth before going an o
    date, also you may use a gum or mint if you just
    ate something out there. Make sure that your lips
    are soft and your mouth is moist; so run your
    tongue over your lips once before you kiss, it
    will be a more pleasant experience. Close your
    eyes just before your lips meet and tilt your
    head slightly in the opposite direction of your
    partner. Also, don't drool all over her mouth
    while kissing; women don't like wet or sloppy
    kisses.

    The secret of being a great kisser is to keep it
    simple and sexy. Use your hands to hold her face,
    show her that you are in control, and make this
    moment unforgettable, it can be a real pleasure.
    Avoid excess of saliva, it is true that some
    saliva sharing is unavoidable, but too much is a
    definite turn off.  Also, be a tease; women love
    to be teased, so let her know who is in control
    by driving her crazy with your kiss. You must
    know when to slow down, so let her dying for more.

    A kiss is much more than a simply touching lips,
    it is a expression of love, desire and passion.
    Move your whole body towards your partner and if
    she is responding press your chest towards her,
    then your waist and finally move your lips ; feel
    your partner's rhythm and match it. Learn to use
    your tongue skillfully while kissing circling the
    tip of your partner's tongue with your tongue
    gives both partners a real pleasure. Gently move
    the tongue in, exploring the inside of the lips.

    Everyone likes to be kissed in a different way:
    some like soft slow kissing, others like more
    wild action, so you need to find out which is her
    favorite. You can start with regular, simple kiss
    and then go further to French kiss and so on. If
    this is the first time you kiss her and you are a
    little nervous, you should try the simple kiss
    with closed lips, which is also a hello or good-
    bye kiss, but for moment is ok. But the
    preferable is to try the regular kiss with the
    open lips – open your mouth slightly and place
    your lips over her lips; breath throw your nose;
    as your lips met, press them gently over your
    partners.

    If you think that you can go further, try the
    French kiss, which involves touching your tongue
    with your partners. You can play with your tongue
    by circling her with your own, be inventive and
    have fun. Also suck kissing can be very seductive,
     but not all the women like it. Nip kissing has
    to be done carefully and only after you kiss the
    girl a few times before; while suck kissing bite
    her lip gently but watch out to not hurt her. No
    matter which kind of  kiss you choose, show some
    passion; this indicates desire and comes from
    within; if you are relaxed and follow your heart,
    you will be lost in the kiss and you will make
    this moment special.

    7 Signs that she is a Fraud

    7 Signs that she is a Fraud
     
     

    If you are looking for love and marriage abroad, it is very simple to get it right, believe me! There are thousands of honest, sincere women who will be genuinely interested in YOU!

    But after you are meeting a nice girl that seems to be right for you make sure the person you are talking to is FOR REAL.

    Frankly, looking for a partner abroad is not any different than any other search - search for a house, a second-hand car, or whatsoever, in one simple yet important detail: there will always be people that will try to take advantage of you.

    The perception that you have built about dating scams can make you be cautious and suspicious all the time! That is even worse. Chances are you will make the same mistakes as other guys and destroy what was a really good and honest relationship - just because of being paranoid about scammers.

    But what if I tell you that there are some specific signs that can make you  solve the enigma of sincerity in your relationship and find out that the person you were corresponding with is not who she said she is?

    1. Money is a key object to know a scam. At some point she begins to ask for money, frequently asking that it be transferred through wire services. She commonly states that the money is needed to help resolve a family tragedy or arrange for a trip to the United States. A copy of a fraudulent U.S. visa is sometimes attached to prove good intentions.

    Beside this, there are other subtle signs that can make you be suspicious from the first e-mails she is sending you.

    2. The most prominent is the fact that scammers don't really read your letters. They don't remember what you have written - actually, they don't relate to the content of your letters at all. They don't answer your questions.

    3. Things move very fast, and she falls in love with you within 1-5 letters. Those letters she send to you could be sent to anybody: "her" letters are pure monologue that becomes more and more obsessed with "her love" to you and her desire to be together with you despite of everything that separates you.

    4. She doesn't want to provide you with her phone number pretending that she doesn't have a phone or that she didn't speak English. Paper can bear anything, you know that. But even phone conversation can give you more clues of what's really going on (though men usually tend to misinterpret subtle signs excusing them by the language barrier).

    5. Your name usually appears only once, or does not appear at all in the correspondence she is sending to you. She uses "darling", "sweetheart", "my love" and so on instead, because she is probably afraid not to mix the names of her victims or is sending the same messages to all of them only changing the names.

    6. She lets you know from the very beginning that she is a student or how little she earns, including the size of her salary even though you never asked about it. But she never asks about the state of your finances - neither uses the word "financially secure" in her description of the prospective partner.

    7. She writes you almost every day (keeps sending you photos even if you did not ask for) and in her letters she talks a lot about trust, honesty and sincerity. :)

    So of course you must be aware of the fact that there are some individuals out there who may try to extract from you some amounts in cash, but remember that not all pretty girls you are meeting online are swindlers. Many men who were looking for a foreign wife, and met a wonderful girl without problems, are very surprised to find information about scams - they did not know that such a thing exists!

    It is you who takes the choice and the risk.

    Enjoy but don't get fooled.

    Online dating tips for men

    Online dating tips for men

    6 tips for NOT dating Russian women

    Let me give you 6 valuable tips:

    Tip 1.
    If you are a single man and you don’t want to be single anymore then you probably already are using the Internet as a source to find a new partner. But fun dating, chatting and ‘playing around’ with people from your own culture or country is something different then being determined to find specific a Russian woman with the one and only purpose: to marry her. This means traveling to Russia (to meet her), possible language barrier, learning about the Russian (women) culture, be prepared for unexpected situations, like money expenses, possible scam situations (if you are looking in the wrong places) and many more.
    If you are not convinced about yourself that this is all worth for you, then don’t start dating or contacting Russian women. A serious looking Russian woman who is a formal member of a serious established agency has already prepared herself before she decides to register herself as a possible candidate for serious looking single men from all over the world. She is not looking for pen pals or everlasting month’s of email correspondence, no she is looking for a life partner with one main purpose: to build a happy family.

    Tip 2.
    If you think that register yourself at some dubious free dating site would be enough to present yourself as a serious looking single man, who is looking for a serious marriage minded Russian woman with the expectation that many women will contact you first, then don’t start to find your future Russian wife in these places, because you will not find them here. These kind of sites can be fun of course, but are also hotbeds for possible scammers.
    Believe me, I have unfortunately a lot of experience with men who started at the wrong places. Be smart and take a huge head-start by avoiding these places.

    Tip 3.
    There are people who register themselves in men’s catalogs with photographs as if they are looking like ‘Tarzan’s’ or use photo’s only wearing swimming shorts, just to impress young good looking ladies. And write a biography using 3 lines like “Hello, my name is [name], I am a single man looking for a young beautiful woman who also likes music, going out, having fun and drive fast cars, if you are interested, then please write me back”
    If you identify yourself with that kind of persons, then don’t contact or try to impress Russian women in such way. Russian women are not looking for Brad Pitt look-alikes or muscles like Sylvester Stallone. They are not judging ‘looks’ at all, and you will find out why if you take the trouble to do this the right way.

    Tip4.
    If you think Russian women are looking for any (western) man just because you think they are looking for a new country, a better life, a wealthy man, no matter if he is 20 years older than she is, then please keep on dreaming. They just seek compatible partners for long term-relationships and marriage and want to love and be loved, that’s all no more, no less!

    Tip 5.
    If you don’t have a regular job or (enough) income or don’t have a house/apartment (rent or owned) big enough to live with a family, or if you have any serious criminal records (I am not talking about non paid parking tickets), then don’t try to bring a Russian woman into your country. You will not succeed. Not because of my personal advise which has nothing to do with this, but because of the strict regulations, procedures and rules that are imposed by the authorities when you have the intention to immigrate a Russian woman into your country. Please advise the official USCIS website by yourself: <a href="http://uscis.gov/graphics/howdoi/fiance.htm">http://uscis.gov/graphics/howdoi/fiance.htm</a>

    Tip 6
    If you think, that when she finally joins you in your country, you can start living your ‘normal’ life again and if you think she is capable enough to find her own way in your (for her) strange country, to find at once a job, to teach herself your language and find by herself new friends and if you think she should be ‘thankful’ that you have ‘pulled her out’ her poor mafia controlled and corrupted country, then don’t start even thinking about contacting a Russian woman. At least the first month’s she will need extra support from you to settle herself with you as a ‘just married’  husband-and-wife couple and she has to adjust to your country (customs), your culture, your language, your friends, your colleague’s, your shops, your train and bus schedule, your etc. and that takes time and patience from both of you.

    A Man's Secrets to Successful Online Dating

    A Man's Secrets to Successful Online Dating


    People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it works…or, at least, it can work.  Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online.  All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen…and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme.  That’s not only wise but vital.  So what’s a nice guy to do?  You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo.  You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you. 

    You must be patient.  Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives.  Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online.  Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face.  She will think you are desperate or a pervert.  Patience.  Patience. Patience. 

    Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job.  A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit.  Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one. 

    A picture really is worth a thousand words.  Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots.  If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head. 

    Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours  and that she bring a friend with her.  After all, you have nothing to hide.  You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you.  The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.

    5 Great Tips On How To Get Girls

                                                       5 Great Tips On How To Get Girls

    According to some surveys, most of the people would want to marry some day, that is why each of them are willing to go out on dates. In the U.S. alone, nearly 53% said that they have dated more than one person at the same time.

    However, the concept boils down to the fact that even if dating seems to be the ideal ways to start develop a great relationship founded on true love, still it cannot be directly concluded that the activity is relatively easy.

    Take for example the idea of getting a girl. Many boys are having a hard time finding the best strategy to get girls. This is because many boys also have their own fears, especially the fear of rejection.

    So for those who want to know how to get a girl and ask her on a date, here are five ways that will surely make you get one and have fun:

    1. Create a dazzling personality

    According to some statistical reports, almost 30% of the adult population in the U.S. who are engaged into dating activities stated that the most important attribute that they are looking for in a guy is the personality. That is why most girls insist that the looks are not that important, what matters most is the personality of the person.

    So if you really want to succeed in getting a girl, try to create an impression first that you have the best personality in the world. This can be projected through your sense of humor, confidence, and the way you carry the conversation with wit.

    2. Be cool

    The key to getting a girl should not project an air of desperation. Even if you have not dated a girl yet, try to be cool and create an impression that you want to get the girl because you like her and not because you are in desperate need of a partner.

    3. Be ready for rejections

    The problem with most people, especially guys, is that they have too high expectations when it comes to dating and relationships. In fact, almost 62% of those who are into dating have asserted that the people’s probabilities and expectations are very high these days.

    Hence, it is a must that people must learn how to face rejections, especially men, so that getting girls would be easier. Keep in mind that girls can still say no even if you have the best car, good looks, and dazzling personality.

    If in case you were not able to get the girl that you want, try to reflect what might have been the cause why she had rejected you. Also, there are still other girls out there that you can turn to, so do not be despaired

    4. Consider the “No” of the girl

    There are many cases wherein a girl might say “no” for two possible reasons: one is that she does not like you, and the second reason is that she wants to go out with you but not tonight. These are two different situations that must be clearly understood.

    The problem with some guys is that they take it personally whenever they receive some forms of rejections. So it is better to analyze the situation and the intention of the girl by saying “NO.”

    5. Be casual

    The best way to get a girl is to make her feel that the date would be very casual and would not necessarily involve a conventional date or anything that would imply romantic involvement.

    What matters most is for the girl to enjoy her time with you such that if both of you stand a chance of having a good relationship in the future, the memory of your first date should have been vested on good recall.

    The bottom line is that guys should never make the girls feel pressured in saying “yes” every time they are being asked to go out. What matters most in getting a girl is to make it sure that the person concerned will be comfortable and would feel that she will be in good hands.

    Seducing a Woman

    Seducing a Woman

    Understanding what a woman is looking for in a man is the first secret to seducing a woman. For many men, the concept of how to seduce a woman is simply a mystery. It’s understandable, though. Men and women differ in so many ways that it’s difficult for many of us to really grasp how to get inside the mind of the opposite sex.

    The true key to seducing a woman isn’t a mere laundry list to check off, step by step. It’s more a guidebook on the path you must follow to completely seduce a woman, mind, body and soul. And believe it or not, what really gets a woman going is much simpler than you may have ever imagined.

    Understanding the differences between the sexes will help give you a better foundation on which to build your knowledge of women. Once you can get inside her mind, it’s all downhill from there.

    Communication is ultimately the most important aspect in seducing a woman. Like so many other aspects of our lives, effective communication is the key to success. You want to take the time to really get to know her and what she’s looking for. This will benefit you greatly when it comes to pleasing her, so don’t think that getting to know your woman is a pointless, grueling task of learning a bunch of useless information.

    Patience when seducing your woman is equally important, too. Being in a hurry will only prove to damage any good you could’ve done by learning anything at all about your woman. When it comes to seducing a woman, take it slow. We want a man to take his time, not just rush in for the brass ring. A woman wants to know that you aren’t just playing her for sex. And the best way to prove yourself is to take your time.

    All in all, women want to feel special. Being romantic makes us feel special. So if you want to seduce your woman you have to be romantic. It proves that you care, that you want to please her and that you know how to treat a woman right. Romance will take you a long way in seducing a woman.